tis the week before xmas and nothing has been done

tis the week before xmas and nothing is done, no shopping, no idea what to buy or make, no money, not much time. Thought we would have a kid free weekend but Mom showed up at 11p.m. last night with the two bundles of joy. She stayed a five whole minutes and out the door with her "girlfriend". Off to who knows where andd may be I just don't care any more. she may show up sometime this afternoon to see the boys but usually she goes to bed and makes them watch tv. So much for quality time with her kids.
My mind is blank when it comes to what to do. Since my husband had quardruple bypass in Feb it has gone done hill. He was 45 days in ICU. They first had problems with the surgery. The Drs tore a hole in the back of his heart so he was dead twice but good thing he was able to come back both times, ha, ha. he recieved lung damge, nerve damage and a coma for five days. they told the only thing tto do was pray ,so I did. He came out and was able to go home but he acted like a four year old. didn't know how to buckle the seat belt in the car, could dress himself, would go soil himself and then his wound on his chest oozed. they told us it was normal. when his heart rate got up to 130 pm. I took him to the ER. They told us he had a infection. They then toook out his sturnum because it was so bad. They went in the next week and did a "flap". He now looks like Frankenstein on the chest. His brain funcution is sorted of normal. He does now dress himself